“I Dare You” or, to quote the famous line, “I triple-dog dare you…” – who can resist a good, fun dare? I have to at least consider it and this post will give you tons of ideas. As we enter December and Binky Patrol’s 30th year, I’m challenging you to find your own way to make a difference. Whether it’s supporting neighbors during government shutdowns, turning family gift exchanges into charity donations, or organizing blanket-making gatherings, there’s always a way to help.

You can listen to the short episode here:

 

Key Takeaways

  1. Grief Support: Sometimes the best gift is permission to heal differently, plus tangible reminders of love and community
  2. Practical Help: Look for neighbors affected by government shutdowns, SNAP benefit changes, or other challenges
  3. Holiday Alternatives: Consider family charity selections instead of traditional gift exchanges
  4. Volunteer Wisely: Always ask organizations how they want help rather than assuming you know
  5. 30th Anniversary: Binky Patrol launches new tagline: “Make blankets. Make friends. Make a difference”

December Challenge Ideas: Ways to Make a Difference

For Neighbors and Community Members

  • Support someone affected by government shutdown with lawn care, errands, or childcare
  • Offer after-school pickup for families taking extra work hours
  • Help those experiencing SNAP benefit gaps with grocery store gift cards
  • Create care packages for families navigating sudden loss or crisis
  • Check on elderly neighbors who might be dreading the holidays alone – you could even help them decorate AND take down

For Holiday Gatherings and Family Events

  • Organize blanket-making sessions during family visits (everyone needs something to do between football and naps!)
  • Draw charity names from a hat – each family member supports someone else’s favorite cause
  • Replace traditional gift exchanges with group donations to selected charities
  • Bring pre-cut blanket materials to holiday parties for a meaningful group activity
  • Set up crafting stations with side tables for snacks and conversation while making blankets

For Workplace and Group Activities

  • Organize small team blanket-making sessions (like the Nike teams Susan visits)
  • Host a “make blankets, make friends” lunch hour activity
  • Create comfort items for those experiencing their “first” holidays after loss
  • Coordinate group volunteer efforts with proper guidance from organizations
  • Plan Martin Luther King Day of Service activities for your team

For Personal Impact

  • Ask organizations HOW they want you to volunteer (don’t assume you know)
  • Create handmade reminders that someone is seen and loved (like the pink ornaments)
  • Give the gift of trees through Audubon Society or similar meaningful donations
  • Share information about your chosen charities to educate others – your family may have no clue where your volunteer heart lives.
  • Volunteer consistently rather than just during the holidays

For Grieving Friends and Family

  • Give permission to create new traditions when old ones hurt too much
  • Make tangible items that show ongoing support and love
  • Offer specific help rather than asking “what do you need?”
  • Remember that grief doesn’t follow a holiday schedule
  • Create new memory-makers that honor healing journeys

Accept Susan’s December dare: Find one person, family, or organization to help this month.